Sure...Tell him. Put all that guilt on his shoulders. Ghandi once said, when he was told people near him were betraying him, “I don’t want to know, then I must carry this on my mind and shoulders.”
I love this, when people want to tell you that they’ve been unfaithful....
Hey...grow up. You made the mistake you live with it, and keep inside. IF I were you husband, and you told me this, I would have a difficult time accepting it.
On the other hand... “for richer, for poorer, for better for worse...” Maybe you should read my book...
Hindsight is twenty twenty. When she volunteered to open her legs to have unprotected sex, all she wanted was a orgasm. If that was all she did, maybe she could keep her mouth shut. But she a kid now and it ain’t her husbands. The Child has to be taken care of and it’s her responsibility and the fathers. If the husband wants to help, ok. If not, and she keeps it a secret..then the child suffers now or later.