Having seen male friend’s and colleagues raped by the family court system I dare say the assumption that men are tought to be lecherous is wrong. I am also assuming you have not dated many American women in the gen x and y age groups. Avoiding marriage is a good business decision in today’s society.
What would bring them to “family court” in the first place?
It takes two to tango, after all. There was a letch involved that broke up the marriage; it’s not all “money problems”.