Here’s something for these women to think about.
He’s been “broken in” they say. He’s “been with” various women, understands ins and outs of relationships, etc.
Considering all of that, suppose he is always comparing YOU to all of these other women, and you don’t stack up??? How does that aspect of things make you feel?
What if his having been with various women conditions him to think that there will always be plenty of fish in the sea, and conditioned him to bail out on YOU at the first sign of trouble or issues to work through????
What if his divorce has made him gun shy about any serious commitment or marriage ever again?
I wonder how well these liberal women would take constant contact with the woman that “broke in” the man in question.
“broken in”
I think that means BROKE.
Side bar story: I was dating a lady who had been divorced. She had never received child support. I pointed out she should consider getting a lien on her prior spouses home as he was considering selling it. She contacted her attorney, Bella, and the attorney charged her a substantial sum to file a lien. I asked why she did not get a real attorney like someone named Bob, or Mike or John. She got annoyed and said Bella was great just like all the other women professionals she employed. I looked at the lien and pointed out the lien was filed in the wrong county! She contacted Bella, whom I aptly called Bella the big mouth, and she filed the lien in the correct county. She now has a new attorney, named Mark.
‘Considering all of that, suppose he is always comparing YOU to all of these other women, and you don’t stack up??? How does that aspect of things make you feel?’
Someone has some major insecurity.
That's usually the case. Plus divorced people of both sexes have baggage. They're dealing with kids, visitation weekends, child support, etc.
Though I did know one good-looking young girl whose goal was to be a second wife. As far as she had seen, second wives had a better deal. The second wife gets the guy when he's more mature, more established in his career, and is a better husband and father. Oftentime the first wife makes the sacrifices, helping put the husband through school and struggling through the lean times, only to be dumped for a younger woman once the husband has become successful.