I hate to tell you this, but anal sex is common place amongst heterosexuals (male/female) in this day and age. It is NOT something I would ever do, or want to do, but, it is common today. Get into the 21st Century Catherine. It’s not just homosexuals who are “fudge packers”.
*Shrug* Maybe you need to meet a better class of people. It isn't commonplace among women I know. The concept is repellent. It has nothing to do with "not being in the 21st century" or being prudish; it's a common sense understanding that anal sex is filthy, disease-inducing, painful, and unnatural.
The only woman I ever knew who advocated anal sex was also into threesomes and had had four abortions.
While you might believe that it's "common place" among normal people, the fact remains that ALL queers practice it. Someone once posted a link to an article in which a queer described, in detail, the things he liked to do, including ingesting feces. His attitude was "So what? We LIKE it." I wish I'd bookmarked the article for people, like you, who try to draw parallels between deviants and normal people.