Nah, it’s that passive-aggressive guys make a point of not doing anything they’ve specifically been asked to do. All that negative effort and emotion makes them croak early. That they have a nagging wife is correlated with that, but as another effect of their behavior—not the cause of their demise.
In 33 years of marriage I've used command voice
maybe 5 times, and they were all emergencies.
Wife can use command voice 5 times in an hour.
Since when is sauce for the goose, sauce for the gander...
I'm surrounded by examples of being told what to do.
It is RARE for me to tell her what to do...
What gives with this?