Ditto. The other day while out cruising with my significant other, I made a snide remark about some driver who was driving erratically. Probably some old idiot I remarked to the wife. She said, "you're in that age range, and you probably qualify on both counts." She had me there.
A recent experience with my now passed away father in law proved to me that we only see what we want. He was in an assisted living home and was totally unhappy about it. Every time I would go see him he would complain about them all being crazy. He had dementia and couldn’t remember his name half the time. lol