You are assuming that communication [successful transmission of information] between entangled particles [e.g., photons] is what facilitates the matching of their respective states of spin.
***That seems also to have been Einstein’s assumption, as well as others. The issue does not seem to be resolved in physics.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Local_realism#Local_realism
Well not yet at least, dear Kevmo! Here's a closely relevant problem that needs to be addressed IMHO:
Local RealismLocal realism is Newton's main assumption, and Einstein's main assumption. It only gets you so far conveniently within four-dimensional reality....
Local realism is the combination of the principle of locality with the "realistic" assumption that all objects must objectively have a pre-existing value for any possible measurement before the measurement is made.
Somehow I sense we are on the verge of a paradigm shift....
Thanks for the link, and for writing, dear Kevmo!