[Himyar]

My husband is in his 60’s, has COPD and keeps on smoking. I almost hate him for committing suicide slowly. He’s never watched anyone die from lung problems. I have and I don’t look forward to watching him die like that.

[Gay State Conservative]

In addition to our experience with our Dad I worked for 20 years in a large hospital's ER.I'd encourage you to tell your husband that hanging out for a single 8 hour shift in a busy ER would motivate him to quit...*big time*! Promise him a lifetime supply of Nicorette gum and/or patches....or tell him you'll leave him and empty the bank accounts before you do.Or say to him "I'll take up crack cocaine to keep you company".

Ugly isn't the word for what awaits him unless he quits now.

[SgtHooper]

You need to get passed that for your own well being. Smokers will do that, but find your inner peace.