As for the men, they do what they learn. There are TOO many boys growing up mostly fatherless. From whom do they learn to be a man? All they have as role models are women, many of them angry at men. Read that as women blaming men for their not being happy.
Fathers are SO important. They teach boys how to deal with adult male authority and they teach girls how to deal with men. Black boys need fathers even more as they teach their sons how to deal with adult WHITE male authority.
Choices.