She is beyond efficient and i have no doubts whose wedding this is. i DO know who is paying for it though, robt, so to that extent i get a say-so on some things. She is cost-conscious and conservative, but it is going to cost a small fortune. They are going to Italy on their honeymoon, so they won’t miss Maui too much. i am inclined to go, and i feel perfectly calm, but i have had several friends go through marrying off their kids within the past few months, and i know there are stresses that will come. The other factor is he has another conference in October in England and i am pressing for that one, instead, so we will see.
Hmmmmn.
Decisions, decisions.
Should Robt try to finagle a ride to HI with xsex to go see the beaches and mountains and views, or go on the trip with xshub to England and get tours of all of the old iron works, canals, bridges, and manufacturing centers?
The UK over Hawaii? I think I’d go with the islands.