Let me tell you what's sad.
Sad is allowing a tiny minority of perverts to redefine the language, and playing along with it because you don't have the guts to speak up, or because you want to be seen as tolerant, inclusive, politically correct, etc.
There's nothing "gay" about the lifestyle. It's responsible for disease and early death, and those caught up in it are mentally unstable.
And there's something even sadder. If you have a strong stomach, you can look at pictures from the Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco. It's pretty sickening, and I don't recommend it. But there are pictures of queers parading their adopted toddlers around in leather and chains. Now THAT is sad.
So save your sanctimony....it's meaningless.
sanc·ti·mo·ny (s ngk t -m n )
n.
Feigned piety or righteousness; hypocritical
devoutness or high-mindedness.