[old and tired]

If you can’t give up drinking for a month, you really need to give up drinking. That said, I find all these suggestions to donate to charity somewhat offensive and/or intrusive, unless they’re coming from my spiritual advisor. You give up drinking for a month, you go ahead and spend your beer money on whatever you damn well please.

[old and tired]

That said, I find all these suggestions to donate to charity somewhat offensive and/or intrusive

Actually, so is the suggestion that everybody give up drinking.