[JSteff]

We sleep apart, don't do date night and our social lives, other than family and kid/school/sports activities are apart.

Isn't that what most marriages in the U.S. are like today?
The kids are all that matters and why you are even here today. Years from now, when all the confusion of today is past for you and the wife, they will be the only imprint of you both on the world.

So forget about everything else and have fun being a dad cause that is all you really have and will remember of today... or of tomorrow. Your kids are all that is important to you and will be your testament to the world and God.

[mylife]

And what does one do when the nest is empty?
Seriously
And she is a stranger?