getting shot down for most of them is still hard to take in today's self esteem driven world even for Christians
“i maybe wrong but i think many/a lot of the are gun shy...
getting shot down for most of them is still hard to take in today’s self esteem driven world even for Christians”
That is an enormously ignorant and callous statement.
“Gun shy”, please. What kind of a fool would enter into a civil contract where at any time the other party can make a criminal complaint against you in order to have you arrested, take your children from you, evict you from your dwelling, terminate the civil contract, take half of your assets and garnish your wages?
From that starting point you must defend yourself by enjoining a highly-developed revolving door legal-government industry dedicated to extracting money from families via criminal, civil and tort prosecution.
If you’re lucky you can defend the civil suits after you’ve dismissed the criminal allegations. In the end the majority of your assets will be controlled by lawyers, government and your ex-partner in that order.
Fool.