Few questions that need answers:
1. Do you intend to clean and maintain your weapon well? Or will it live at the bottom of a purse?
2. Is it for carry?
3. How concealable do you need it?
4. Are you worried a little kid might get it?
5. How would you carry it?
6. Are you worried about recoil?
7. Is this your first pistol? A revolver is a simpler for newbies to learn than semi-autos.