You did the right thing. You taught moderation (a sip), safe experimentation (parental supervision), social context (dinner with family), buffering of effects of alcohol (wine with a meal). You provided the proper context for drinking, and the children learned well. I think the kids who grow up with alcohol problems aren't introduced to alcohol the right way: it's something off-limits and forbidden until they're 21, then they go wild and become irresponsible with it.
Thanks. I don’t take any credit, we were just lucky I guess, b/c the 3 boyz didn’t give us a lick of trouble while they were growing up.
I do think that b/c we always lived on the *water*, they were occupied with wholesome activities, swimming, boating, fishing, yada and weren’t hanging out with the *wrong* crowd. I don’t believe we heard *I’m bored....there’s nothing to do.*
That and Scouting. :)