thank you
And oldteen you never know, it might help. But peer pressure and booze still rule male teens lives. For our generation it was drag racing. Now they have so many new and stupid ways to do themselves damage.
My first bike had one gear. Whether I was going fast or slow, uphill or downhill, that gear did everything. My next bike had three gears: one for level surfaces, one for going uphill, and one for going downhill. My third bike had ten gears, allowing me an even broader range of choices. Even though my last bike had several gears to choose from, I didnt use all of them every time I rode. Some were best suited for starting and climbing, others were reserved for gaining speed, and others were best for a leisurely pace. But the thing about gears is this: Even though I wasnt using all of them at the time, it didnt mean I would never need them.
The same can be true in regard to our spiritual gifts and abilities. During times when I feel I am not being used to do certain things I once did, instead of feeling useless and unappreciated I thank God for the gear Im currently able to use. Just because a skill is not needed right now doesnt mean it never will be.
Our spiritual gifts are needed in different ways at different times. Needs and circumstances change in unforeseeable and unpredictable ways. The apostle Paul reminded Titus, Be ready for every good work (Titus 3:1). May that be true of us as well.
Read: Titus 3:1-8
I know peer pressure can be extremely influential on a teen but we can only pray they do the right thing and keep themselves out of dangerous situations that end up, unfortunately, so sadly.
My prayers continue for you and your family for this tragic, unnecessary, loss of a young loved one.