Sort of like the ACLU wanting to establish atheism as the defacto state religion by driving all competiting version out of the public square.
Nicely played. I think it's not even that complicated. It's more about forcing everyone else -and particularly Conservatives- to use the term 'marriage'.
I'm in the rag biz, so do business with lots of gay guys. Politics comes up from time to time. All I know would be voting Dem, but none care about this marriage nonsense.
They are free to get a civil union contract and then have a private marriage ceremony that isn't a legal issue. I have several gay friends who did this. Private "Marriage" ceremonies at a Unitarian church then a separate legal contract like a civil union. It isn't much different in a straight couple getting a marriage license then going to their church for a private ceremony. The only difference with the first example is the two don't legally relate.
That’s just it...in the end, it is about destroying God’s definition of marriage.
And with all their talk about tolerance, this is really about their hatred of something that “straights” view as sacred.
“Because people don’t see you as being married.”
Back in the day, “gay” activists acknowledged that marriage was a heterosexual relationship and they were not interested in marriage because they were “gay”.
Then they started movements to obtain laws granting “gays” “civil unions”, and every attempt and success at that idea was slightly different and measured a little more or a little less in terms of legal rights equal to the rights of a married couple.
Then something changed and civil unions were no longer “good enough”; good enough to whom, “gay” persons or the activists and their laweyers; I suspect it was the latter not the former.
And now? Now the activists’ legal assault is not for “equality under the law”, is not for tolerance; it is an attempt to use the law to have the law mandate social acceptance.
It’s a false goal. “Gays” don’t need it and it does not really work, because true acceptance cannot be taken, is must be given, willingly.
Everyone, including social conservatives and “gays” should have accepted the separate institution of civil unions, with equality in legal respects therein, as a solution befitting the use of law, and leaving marriage unchanged, in law and socially, and leaving “acceptance” where it belongs - with those with whom you seek it in your own life, period.