Yeah. This article looks like liberal projection. "I can't control myself, so obviously no one else can.", or somesuch rationalization.
I work with women every day. No sex. Frankly, it really doesn't ever cross my mind. The only time I mention it to my wife is when something might look improper - for instance, I'm meeting a (female) potential client for lunch this week. I've no idea what she's like or what she looks like (only talked on the phone), but I don't want Mrs WBill to even get a sniff of a wrong idea.
And does anyone other than me have a problem with the designation of people in their 20s and 30s as “emerging adults”?
Nah, I don't like it either. Gives you some insight as to the mentality of the writer of this piece.
I know some men that I think are handsome and/or charming. There’s a particular guitarist that my whole choir (married women between 40 and 70) sighs over when he’s at our church. However, I’m not interested in sex with any of them. It’s nice that their wives have a good-looking husband. (I have one, too!)
Maybe that’s a difference between men and women ... or maybe it’s just a difference between me and some of the men whose posts I read here.