Many people, men and women do settle for less from what they originally tried or thought they could get...I was not just saying this happens to women only. I can’t tell you how many guys I know who have scoffed at dating a 5/10 women in HS or college but are now engaged or married to them and are very happy.
A “10” with a foul/ugly soul quickly turns into a “-4.” A sweet, kind, good natured “5” quickly turns into an “11.”
Agreed...I know a woman that is a true 9.5 appearance wise but she is ugly to the bone personality. She would brag and laugh how she would treat boyfriends as sh***y as possible just to see how long they would stick around and grovel at her feet.
It became a game to her how bad she would treat them.