You mean you hope that is the case, so you can continue to justify dysfunctional behavior.
I’m the dysfunctional one? Yeah...Im a middle aged woman posting on a thread about bathing suit styles for (ahem) middle aged women. I’m not the one who trolled on by (with Al Bundy YouTube clips—which add SO MUCH to the discourse).
Look to your own motivations....a true Southern gentleman doesn’t pick fights where he has no standing.