Well, any really conservative woman loves a man that lets go of his own pleasures for more of the spiritual love. One displaces the other if we are moving towards God. That is just a fact.
You are missing the point. Woman want the sex as much as the men. You can be conservative and religious and love sex as a matter of fact conservative/religious men and women have the highest amount of sex and satisfaction from sex of all classes of people. God wants people to have satisfying sex lives at all ages. Couples are still having sex in their 60's/70's and 80's on a regular basis.
No wonder you are still unmarried at age 50. SRS any woman that reads what you are typing and they are going to run like the wind. Where you get this crap that woman don't want sex is beyond me....something in your past damaged or skewered your views or have some wacky cult message.