Mark messed up. He arrived an hour late at a restaurant where he was to meet a friend from church. The friend had already left. Feeling sorry about his mistake, Mark purchased a gift certificate from the restaurant and stopped at a local card shop to search for an apology card. Among hundreds of cards, he was surprised to find only a few sorry for my actions cards in an obscure part of the store. He purchased one and gave it to his friend who accepted his apology.
Although apology cards may not be popular, apologies are frequently needed in our relationships. Apologizing is a biblical action. Jesus instructed His followers to make things right with those weve offended (Matt. 5:23-24; 18:15-20). And the apostle Paul said, If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all (Rom. 12:18). Living at peace may require apologies.
Apologies can be hard to make because it takes a spirit of humility to admit our mistake, which may not come naturally for us. But taking responsibility for how we were wrong in a situation can bring healing and restoration to a relationship.
Have you messed up? Swallow your pride and make the first moveeven if you cant find a card to help you say it.
Read: Matthew 5:21-26
What a great lesson, Rus..Thank you for ODB!
New King James Version (NKJV)
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13 He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches.
The Lukewarm Church
14 And to the angel of the church of the Laodiceans[a] write,
These things says the Amen, the Faithful and True Witness, the Beginning of the creation of God:
15 I know your works, that you are neither cold nor hot. I could wish you were cold or hot.
16 So then, because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot,[b] I will vomit you out of My mouth.
17 Because you say, I am rich, have become wealthy, and have need of nothingand do not know that you are wretched, miserable, poor, blind, and naked
18 I counsel you to buy from Me gold refined in the fire, that you may be rich; and white garments, that you may be clothed, that the shame of your nakedness may not be revealed; and anoint your eyes with eye salve, that you may see. ...”
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God's Word called Israel, stiff necked, hard hearted, murmurers, ... we are little different ...?