Hmmmm...I will review this in the AM. It sounds very intelligent, and strikes me as allowing me to have the final say. While I like my DIL, I think she is “pushy.”
But you didn’t hear that from me!
XOXO
There’s only the one you, so you should be in control of the disposition of you. Get it all in writing - standard forms are available online, so you don’t have to pay a lawyer.