Uhmmm he calls me and my family rednecks because his wife isnt happy with him or this state and Im the problem? Funny stuff...
I live in CA and consider myself a redneck, west coast style, and I have no problem with the term redneck. It's no big deal nor reason to call someone an AH, IMO.
I have more of an issue with thin skinned people, who are easily offended.