She’s not going to be happy no matter where you go. California has serious political, social and economic problems and they are going to get much worse. It’s going to get violent there because business is going under and moving out. The State lost 22% of it’s tax income this year. A lot of people are in the wagon and the horses are fleeing the State. When the wagon doesn’t move the “progress” people riot, steal and murder.
Why is she treating you like a stray dog - do what I want or I’m leaving you? That sounds seriously imbalanced and abusive. My happiness is totally tied to where my husband is. He’s my best friend. Even in liberal states I found rednecks to hang with! I have lived all over the country and I find good people to befriend so that is why it sounds unstable to me. Liberals (amoral nitwits) and American-Americans(rednecks) are everywhere.
Tell her to move out and if she’s not happy, she can move back with you. Does she do this “my way or the highway” with everything?
God Bless you and good luck, Melas. Take care of yourself.
Nope, first time, and to be honest it's her turn. We moved to Dallas because I couldn't live another day in rural Texas where we moved to in the 90's.