You really must work on your reading comprehension...I didn’t say my children NEVER threw a tantrum, just not in public. They both threw a couple at home, as I posted in my first comment, and were corrected for their behavior and learned that tantrums were not going to get them what they wanted. Once they learn that tantrums aren’t going to get them rewards, they will stop throwing tantrums. Anyone who refuses to correct their child’s behavior deserves the hellion they get. The bible says “spare the rod, spoil the child” ...I did not spare the rod, so my children are not spoiled, just loved.
You are cruel. Kids with autism can become that upset over something you might not believe. Like a piece of paper they want getting torn. In public. They can’t, as in are unable to, “lean that tantrums don’t pay off.”. They aren’t doing it for attention. They are just that upset.