Crowbar weighed 16 books when we adopted him. Do you use a sling when you carry her around? I’d need one.
I have a front-backpack, but she’s still too floppy for me to be really comfortable with it. If we’re carrying her around, as opposed to sitting, we just pass her from one person to another. There are always people wanting to hold her. Everyone in the Spanish choir got turns on Sunday, since none of our older children (except Bill, drumming) was there.