If I worked at Walmart and I got her adress off her credit card receipt and then left a note asking for a date would that be a little creepy?
Not sure why someone should get a pass because they are a cop?
There was a time when I was more aggressively political in person. One thing I once did was hang out in a leftist bar, become roaring drunk and argue politics. The owner of that bar turned up at my house. She was a drug addled, sexually confused, redheaded mess who loved to talk about her gynecologist. Adamantly pro-abortion, freely admitted to having had several, but prone to bouts of drunken weepiness about no longer being able to have children, "I practiced contraception so long I just got too good at it" was one memorable slurred line.
She asked me out, after tracking me down via a credit card receipt. Turned her down, things went downhill in the leftist bar after that, fights and such. I stopped going, stopped drinking and became Christian, or rather returned to it.
So, I can understand why this woman decided to pursue a legal course. It creeped me out and I'm a guy. That wacky bar lady wasn't a police officer, either.