She is headed for disaster if she does this. It’s very troubling that her depression started when they began dating.
Have her read about Betty Mahmoody—she married an Iranian and went to Iran for a visit—but then she and her daughter were kept there against their will. She had to escape.
When your entire family and all your friends are against something, it speaks volumes. She’s in a very dangerous situation.
This is the biography that “Not Without My Daughter” the movie was based on. Good book, very good movie.