You’re for the current sanitized, boring, and humorless office rules where our female office secretary can no longer crack an off color joke, send a non pc email, or make a double entrendre lest someone sue her??? That explains a bit.
Seriously, your case appears to be quite genuine but IMHO the allegations, even if true, in the Cain case are quite different. They smack of a witch-hunt.
The “outing” of the Cain complaints smack of a witch hunt, I agree. But I don’t see how the complaints being made way back in 1999 equate to the woman who made them are going after Cain now. It’s Politico, and whomever tipped them off.
As to the sanitized office crack :), I’ve worked in situations that were very bad - and some where a few men were HOUNDED by women. Funny thing (well, maybe not so funny) is that the men often hated that crap as much as most women. They were rarely the target of the lovely women, and usually the target of the strange, creepy, stalking, OWS types. LOL, sometimes the boring can be more conducive to focusing on work.
Do you know how damn creepy it is when a guy waits around outside of the ladies restroom to “escort” you back to your desk? Ewww.