You don’t try to impress any ladies anymore? Your wife? Your mom? Tsk. You should try it again. It’s fun, speaking as the impressee!
My blessed Mother died in February at age 93. I’m not married anymore, and not dating. I’m sixty-six and enjoying singleness just herding the three cats around the place and indulging my hobbies of cooking and gunsmithing. I don’t even write much anymore.