Not to take Ottis the Drunk's side, But no we don't, we never know. We just know that if we ask we'll just make it worse so we act like we know and get defensive to make sure we don't accidentally admit to something you don't already know about. Just yell at us, tells us what the hell we did, we'll be so glad we know we will most likely apologize and never do it again...or make sure we don't get caught again, but either way we'll both be happier.
Sorry, but it had to be said.
We just know that if we ask we'll just make it worse so we act like we know and get defensive to make sure we don't accidentally admit to something you don't already know about.
That's the biggest mistake guys make. Women already know this potential men have, and it's uncanny how specific information just comes to us, sooner or later, in one way or another, without our even looking for anything.
...but either way we'll both be happier.
Not really. Sooner or later, you will always get caught. Better to come clean from the get go.