When Shayla McKnight applied for a job for an online printing company, she was surprised to learn that they had a zero-tolerance policy for gossip. The employees are encouraged to confront one another, instead of gossip about their fellow employees. If employees are caught gossiping, they are reprimanded, and if they continue, they are fired.
Long before this kind of policy was ever implemented by a company, God spoke of His own zero-tolerance policy for gossip and slander among His people (Lev. 19:16). Idle talk that foolishly or maliciously spreads rumors or facts about another person was forbidden.
Solomon said that speaking badly of others could have disastrous effects. It betrays confidence (Prov. 11:13), separates close friends (16:28; 17:9), shames and saddles you with a bad reputation (25:9-10), and perpetually fuels the embers of a quarrel (26:20-22). People rarely can undo the damage their untrue words have done to a neighbor.
Lets ask the Lord to help us not to engage in harmful talk about others. He wants us to set a guard over our mouths so that well instead speak all the good we know about everybody.
Read: Leviticus 19:11-18
I have a friend that says “look for the good” ... in a situation, person, act, place or thing.
Paul wrote in Romans and Philippians the verses we all know ...
“Romans 8:28
King James Version (KJV)
” 28.And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.”
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Philippians 4:8
King James Version (KJV)
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8.Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest,
whatsoever things are just,
whatsoever things are pure,
whatsoever things are lovely,
whatsoever things are of good report;
if there be any virtue,
and if there be any praise,
think on these things.”
Heavenly Father, help us to write these words on our heart and mind, in Jesus name, amen.