I’m going to take her gun shopping this winter. I’m sure we’ll find something that’ll fit.
This thread inspired me to try to get through to my son what we were dealing with.
I first had him hold the gun naturally, then place his finger on the trigger guard instead of the trigger. (This caused his finger to touch exactly where mine hits the trigger) He automatically shifted his grip to reach, so now the kick would be absorbed by the thumb instead of the wrist. (Injury)
I pointed this out to him and had him readjust the gun properly and once again try to put his finger on the guard. He couldn’t do it. My daughter and I have no choice but to shift our grip. That makes the whole set-up more unstable. You can’t manage the recoil as well which is why many women don’t like the larger caliber weapons.
This shift in grip also throws off your aim. Instead of locking your wrist nice and straight, you have to turn it in slightly. Now your wrist is even more unstable.
Add all of that awkwardness to the extra weight and you’ve got a trembling hand.
Before he got home, I did the calculations and figured out that the weight of the lighter revolver to me would feel about the same as the light revolver plus the heavier .38 special to him. I had him hold the two guns and tried to get him to feel the weight while trying to reach the trigger guard.
He tried to show me how I could still fire if I switched up my stance and shot two-handed.
I wanted to bang my head on the counter. “Yes, son. That’s what I’ll do. I’ll tell my attacker to stop kicking me in the head and give me a minute to stand up so I can achieve the proper two-handed stance and shoot him. That’ll work.”
It took all of that, but I think he’s starting to get it.