>>Wanna bet that little girl is one of those thugs and by the time she is 7 she will have started hitting her biological giver?<<
My husband was a good one for giving in to our oldest daughter when she was a tot. I told him that if you tell her no and then let her do what she wants, it’s a problem at 2. But at 16 she’ll be taking the car keys and crashing your ride. At that point you have no one to blame but yourself.
Little kids, little problems. Big kids, big problems.
And btw, I took over the discipline so now they are well behaved and considerate.
“My husband was a good one for giving in to our oldest daughter”.
Yep... the little princess syndrome. Daddy doesn’t want his darling daughter upset with him. Good for you for taking over... what occurs when they are little and not disciplined will only turn worse when they get older. Nip it in the bud when little or pick them up at the police station when they are teens. I, too, have become the “mean Mommy”. I tell them to discuss it with their therapist when they are older. LOL!