Seems obvious, doesn’t it?
Not necessarily.
Someone I know (...) was molested by her father.
This did do some serious damage to her concept of men in general, and husbands in particular. However, when she kidnapped her children (the first time), she wound up living with - drum roll... - her father, and the mother who enabled said abuse.
Afterward, she lived with a few men who appeared to not be interested in women, married at least one, probably to help with his otherwise illegal status. Kidnapped the children a second time, and was granted full blessings by the court (which proceeded to charge her children’s father back child support for the years she hid the children or left them in his care).
If you expect people, or courts, to make the obvious decisions, the world can have some nasty surprises in store.