Sweetheart, it wasn’t a pasture. It is a farm that we own. Outright. And with an attitude like that, maybe she deserves better than you. Stop thinking about what you want. It is not YOUR day. And going into debt that takes years to pay off to impress your neighbors and idiot friends is kind of stupid. Dontcha think? And you did knock me you bitch.
Irony is truly the highest form of humor. You've defended yourself most...uh...eloquently.
I don’t think Melas knocked you. We all have our tastes.
I got lucky, or not, with four girls. I’m sure one of them will have the big princess wedding I had. One may elope (and I will be pissed, lol). One may have a wedding in our backyard and a big party like our football parties. It’s all good.
But knocking big princess weddings...as the OP sorta did...is gonna bring opposing comments.
Spending $1100 on my gown back in 1989...it was cheap back then, but reading posts here, that’s considered a lot for a wedding gown. In my area, my wedding/reception was on the low side.