In early 1994, when our family found out that the US soccer team would be playing in Michigan in the World Cup, we knew we had to go.
What a great time we had as we went to the Pontiac Silverdome to see the US take on Switzerland! It was one of the most remarkable events of our lives.
There was just one problem. One of our four children, 9-year-old Melissa, couldnt join us. While we enjoyed the event, it was not the same without her. Even in our joy at being there, we felt sadness because of her absence.
As I think back on that day, Im reminded that our sadness then is a little like our sadness now that Melissa is gone from this lifehaving died in a car accident 8 years after that game. While we cherish the help of the God of all comfort (2 Cor. 1:3), even that great comfort doesnt change the reality of her empty chair at family gatherings. Scripture doesnt tell us that God wipes away our sadness in this life, but it does tell us that God is faithful and will comfort us.
If you have lost a loved one, lean heavily on Gods comfort. Keep trusting Him. But know that its okay to feel sadness for this absence. Consider it one more reason to place your burdens on your loving heavenly Father.
Read: 2 Corinthians 1:3-11
What so ever things are lovely ...
Philippians 4:8 (King James Version)
“ ...
8.Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true,
whatsoever things are honest,
whatsoever things are just,
whatsoever things are pure,
whatsoever things are lovely,
whatsoever things are of good report;
if there be any virtue,
and if there be any praise,
think on these things.”
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Remember she graced your life for a time. How blessed you were to have her. She is in the bosom of love. One day you can go to her, she can not come to you.
I love the phrase the Jews have after a person dies ...
“May their memory be for blessing”