Amy and Meg, I am so sorry about your brothers having Alzheimers. It is such a long, slow retreat of the mind, and so hard to watch, for those who love them.
Once the doctor confirmed my suspicion that my hubby had it, it was easier on me - knowing that he wasn’t deliberately complaining about my cooking every day, or not wanting to bathe. He just couldn’t help it - and knowing that, made it easier for me to accept the changes, and work gently with them.

Thank you, yorkie..You have lived the nightmare, I know.
He doesn’t know who I am.(((HUGS)))

I know it is very difficult for the patient. He told me today that he just wants to know what is wrong with him. He is so frustrated.