
In Singapore, the Chinese New Year seasons social and business dinners often begin with a dish consisting of salads, dressings, pickles, and raw fish. The name of the dish, Yu Sheng, is a pun that sounds like year of prosperity. It is traditional for those present to toss the salad together. As they do, certain phrases are repeated to bring about good fortune.
Our words may express our hopes for others for the year ahead, but they cant bring about good fortune. The important issue iswhat does God want to see in us in the coming year?
In his letter to the Philippians, Paul expressed his desire and prayer that their love may abound still more and more in knowledge and all discernment (1:9). The church had been a great tower of support for him (v.7), yet he urged them to continue to grow to love others. Paul wasnt talking about intellectual knowledge but knowledge of God. Love for others starts with a closer relationship with Him. With a fuller knowledge of God, we can then discern between right and wrong.
Giving our best wishes to others for the coming year is fine. But our heartfelt prayer should be that we abound in love, so that we may be filled with the fruits of righteousness . . . , to the glory and praise of God (v.11).

Doctor: "What happened?"
Woman: "Doctor, I don't know what to do. Every time my husband comes home drunk he beats me to a pulp."
Doctor: "I have a real good medicine for that. When your husband comes home drunk, just take a glass of sweet tea and start swishing it in your mouth.
Just swish and swish but don't swallow until he goes to bed and is asleep."
Two weeks later, the woman comes back to the doctor looking fresh and reborn.
Woman: "Doctor, that was a brilliant idea! Every time my husband came home drunk, I swished with sweet tea. I swished and swished, and he didn't touch me!"
Doctor: "You see how much keeping your mouth shut helps?"
Inside us are two spirits, on is a ravening wolf and the other is a soaring eagle ...
Which one grows ... flousishes,
depends on which one we feed.
Father bless this day and help us in our way, in Jesus name, amen.