I’m a woman. I carry a small .38 revolver, no hammer. Fits in a vest pocket, small purse, or fanny pack. Real easy to conceal.
I have a Judge for shooting snakes. It’s a fun handgun to shoot because it will take cartridges or shells.
I like it’s action. Looks fierce, and makes a big bang, but it’s twice the size of the .38, and heavy. I wear mine in a holster, on a belt.
It’s probably the better gun for defence, but too bulky for easy conceal.
You need to make a decision between fire power, and ease of carry. For me, the .38 wins.
You dont find the recoil harsh?
Most women are shocked at how hard a .38 air weight snubbie can kick.
Men too for that matter