She's much better than she was then, but I dread taking her to the vet again. Maybe recommending that they just sedate her would be best.
I had a feral cat. It was a real job to get her to the vet, but once we did, they knew how to handle her. They even managed to examine her teeth without sedation or any other heroic measures.
My new Dr. Vet is AHA, and he seems knowledgeable and skilled, so she will probably be all right. Feliway helps a lot too.