True. It’s like when my grandmother died and my father was puzzled that my brother and I didn’t look to busted up.
He asked “Aren’t you sad in the slightest about your grandmother and her sudden death?”.
I just smiled and said “Nope. She had it coming. She was 89 and now she is with her best friend in the world, grandpa. So I am happy for her”.
She never uttered an unkind word, always met you with a smile and was just plain interested in what was going on in your life.
Just like my friend who is now 100 years and 3 months old.
That is what I aspire to be like (accept the she part).
(Boy do I have A LOT of work to do)