I don’t know if all repressed memories are false. I supervised an employee who seemed to struggle with something. She always wrung her hands or ‘washed’ them (referring to the motion of smoothing one cupped hand over the other, in turn)while speaking to me. She had a worried look on her face and tension - really tightly wrapped. She actually stressed me out with her tone of voice, facial expression and gestures. She started going to a therapist. She starts unearthing buried memories - father raped her. She conflicts with her family in the present over this issue and their behavior doesn’t seem normal (if he was innocent, of course they would be appalled and angry but they were just plain WEIRD about it). This possible rape explains some of her mothers focused hostility toward her (unlike behavior toward her siblings), perhaps. After ‘facing’ the childhood rape etc. she becomes...well..normal. No more nervous stress, no more ‘hand washing’ gestures, great deal of peace and calm. So does this mean just ‘venting’ on any imagined abuse works or does it mean there really was something she was fighting to keep hidden from herself to avoid ‘rocking the boat’?
And something that strikes me about this research is that, unlike studies and experiments that contribute to a body of research - this study is taken as the ‘final’ answer or the ‘true’ study. This seems a little unusual. Was the study so large and so complete that no further investigation is necessary? The truth is known? Like global warming’s inconvenient truth? ‘Scientists now agree?’
Only some researchers came to the post’s conclusion. With the human brain, anything is possible, including compartmentalizing to the point of repressing a memory. IMHO, of course.
Your poor friend!
excellent point
This is not to say that therapy can't help, though.