I'd bet this girl could out perform your average public school graduate in her sleep.
I'm sure fact-wise, and grade-wise, she would be excellent. But, put that 13-14-year-old in college and those 18-24-year-olds will beat her down socially, to such a degree, that she won't know which end is up ... guaranteed...
I'm sure some will relish the idea of "discussing" some of the free-sex ideas that they have with her, too ... if for no oher reason than to put her on the spot and make fun of her and to show her how "out of their league" she is.
I remember some of those conversations and discussions from college and that was a long time back, and now it's much worse. This little girl would be thrown straight into the middle of something that she's not even prepared to contemplate or even think about right now. And if I know the kind of thinking that will go on there -- if it's detected that there's some reluctance to discuss some of these things, then she'll be hammered with it all the more. They'll provoke her just to get a reaction from her. If she tries to "go along" -- they'll push it to extremes, to make her feel totally out of place (and much more than that...).
I won't go into any details here, but it would be totally devastating to her socially....
You sure have a pretty low opinion of most college age students.
It’s too bad you don’t know any better quality kids than that.
My kids are in college now and I’ve met many of their friends and dorm mates and room mates and not one of them would be like that.
College is a world of difference from high school and junior high, which is really the kind of behavior that you are describing.
College age students have better things to do with their time than beat down on a 13 or 14 year old classmate. They are not the immature, junior high level thinking anti-social snots that you expect them to be.
As I figured, you are projecting. If that’s the kind of person you were and the kind of people you hung out with, of course you’re going to expect everyone else to act like that. Problem is, generally they don’t. Not everyone behaves like you and your friends did.