Ben's not weak. He simply makes bad decisions in his personal life. We have prisons full of people who've made bad decisions and who are now paying a heavy price for it. If Ben doesn't get his act together, he might end up behind bars someday.
Same thing, IMO.
I remember when Ben first started playing, he used to wear an armband with the initials “PFJ”—Playing for Jesus.
I guess the pro sports environment has changed him.