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Actually thats pretty funny.....I wish I had been hard on my daughter. I made sure to be the very best parent I could be. When my husband died almost a year to the day of that event my daughter tried to commit suicide. The only thing that saved her other than Gods grace was a text message she sent me saying that I had been a good mother and no matter what happened I shouldnt blame myself. The text of led to her being saved. She had a long road to recovery and now three years later we decided she would move home and we would make that permanent she would get a job that wasnt stressful and she would help me keep house etc it would benefit the family. I remarried three years ago with the blessing of both my children the 32 year old that lives with me and a 30 yr old daughter that does not. About two years into my 32yr old living with me she began making demands. She became very upset over very small issues like my husband blowing his noise in the bathroom, he laughed to loud ,we made to much noise, i put meat to defrost on the veggie shelf in the fridge all kinds of really small things which we tried to accommodate but sometimes mistakes are made. On one particular day one of her pets had an appointment and i was driving her she was folding laundry on the living room couch i went to turn on the car she said she would be there in a few minutes. My husband came into the living room with her and turned on the TV.....My daughter said some really nasty things at that point.. he could have waited for her to leave and he did that deliberately I only heard because I came back to get my phone charger she didnt see me at the bottom of the stairs and when I said that we should talk like adults and not be insulting etc she verbally attacked me for about three days saying what a horrible mother I had been and how the noise we made was to much for her and just because I helped her didnt make her my B**** and she was going to do and say as she pleased. She said she was moving out because her life depended on it. This was a month ago and the strain in this house is enormous. My daughter hates me she doesnt speak to me she has sold everything she owns and some of my things that were in her room like a game system etc. She has not gotten work and has said she will live at the mission and maybe just jump off a bridge. She is lying around to people that I used to beat her and alot of other things. I am so distraught. I have never done one thing wrong to this girl the worst thing she says to my face I have done is make to much noise for her. We all make noise her to its part of life but for some reason she seems to think its done just to upset her. This is just a small part of it all. I should say I have a 30yr old who is very sweet and loves me to death no issues with us at all. Her sister has not spoken to her in 2yrs over a shoe discount? When I tried to ease that disagreement saying to the 32 yr old that a shoe discount wasnt worth the lose of your sister she freaked out on me. Now my daughter is drinking I smell it on her when she walks through a room I have seen her walk into the wall and she etc. I can say nothing I am sitting here waiting for her to move and dreading her moving and what will become of her. I mean if she feels this family is to much for her to deal with I cant imagine how she will deal with the world. I am heart broken and I really am at a lose to even know how to fix this. She has told someone recently that she loves not one person in this whole planet not one. Im heart broken.