You still seem to be looking for offense where, honestly, none was intended.
My sincere apologies for upsetting you, by unintentionally implying that your 93 year old mother was experiencing psychosomatic illness 40 years ago.
I used the wrong word, the opposite of what I intended actually, and admitted that. Please don’t continue making this personal. This was a nice and very helpful thread. You were trying to be helpful yourself. My reply to you had no ill intent.
I'm not upset or offended! Never was upset by anything you said.
I can't imagine being upset by anything that somebody I don't know would say in a chat room...and can't imagine why it's a big deal to you. Get over it. Peace.
Have a Happy New Year!