Try explaining allergies to most waiters and they look at you like you are stupid. I have an extremely long list which I keep in writing. When I order I hand the list to the waiter and ask, “What on your menu can I have?” You would be amazed at how many of them can’t figure out that rolls have wheat in them. I have also had wonderful waiters who went straight to the chef and between them they came up with an absolutely delicious dish. I appreciate the extra effort and I do tip accordingly. For Labrythinos to say just order something else or don’t go out is shortsighted. I hope he never has an allergic reaction to a meal.
You sound like a freakin Democrat, as if you have some entitlement to a meal at a restaurant that doesn't cause an allergic reaction. If you have that many food allergies, then stay home for God's sake. I don't want you at my restaurant and my liability insurance carrier doesn't want you either.